Social
Justice regarding counseling and psychotherapy is based on the idea that
society gives individuals and groups fair treatment and an equal share of
benefits, resources and opportunities (Chung & Bemak 2012). The goal of
social justice is to ensure that all individuals have an opportunity to achieve
their academic, career, and personal, social potential in society. Advocacy is
the act of speaking out and advocating with or on behalf of an individual or
group (Ratts, Toporek & Lewis, 2010 p. 6) How can an elementary school counselor do this? By teaching students how to respect differences. Respecting differences at the elementary school level could be a school wide initiative for respecting individual differences. All students have a right to a safe and welcoming learning environment where students feel safe being who they are and thus gaining the most out of their academia. It is my belief that children must be taught to respect differences, even if they do not agree. I would hypothesize, that if children were taught to respect differences there would be a decrease in teasing, picking, and bullying, and children would feel more welcome at school.
Pre and Post test data collected from third graders in October 2017 at a local elementary school in Columbus,
Georgia showed that one hundred percent of the third-grade students being
examined believed it was okay to be different. However, thirty percent of that
very same group of students stated you do not have to respect other differences.
Thus, these third-grade students believe it is okay to be different, however
that does not mean people have to respect each other’s differences. The pretest data was collected prior to conducting a three part series of classroom guidance on respecting differences. The post test data was completed after the series on respecting differences was complete. The data revealed to me an issue, people are not
being taught that you do not have to agree with someone else differences, but
you must respect them.
Ratts,
Toporek and Lewis open chapter four of their text book with the quote from a
mother who lost her son over violence dealing with the hate toward her gay son.
Hate that was more than likely birth out of lack of respect for people’s
differences. As an elementary school counselor, the best way for me to advocate
for these students is to offer individual counseling. At the elementary school
level there may or may not be many or any students having issues dealing with
their sexuality, but there are students who live in households with two mothers
or fathers that are in gay or lesbian relationships. It is my job to ensure
that these students have a safe place to discuss their feelings. As a school
counselor I can create climate surveys to gain more information on the issues
that are facing student’s dealing with queer issues.
When
discussing poverty, Ratts, Toporek, and Lewis give the example of Maria, a
single parent that moved from Colombia to the United States. She works as a
clerk at a local grocery store but makes it her mission to purchase her son “name
brand” clothes so that he can “fit in”. This mother is concerned about the way
her son is perceived. In addition, occasionally children can be cruel. They
make fun of people because of the way they dress and look. They bully others
and try to make them feel less than because of what they have and what they do
not. Thus, there is a lack for respecting differences.
Advocacy
can be done here, again by using climate surveys to gain a better understanding
of what children are dealing with. As counselor, I can offer a list of
resources to the parent. For the student I can offer individual and/or small
group counseling to discuss the feelings that the student may have. School Counselors have to change the culture and the way things are perceived. However, they cannot do it alone.
References
Chung,
R. C., & Bemak, F. (2012). Social justice counseling: the
next steps beyond multiculturalism. Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage Publications.
Ratts,
M. J., Toporek, R., & Lewis, J. A. (2010).ACA advocacy competencies: a
social justice framework for counselors. Alexandria, VA: American Counseling Association.
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ReplyDeleteI love the title! Your pre and post test data from Oct of this year does point out one of the major challenges with social justice counseling: Students believe that it is okay to be different but they do not understand the importance of respecting difference. I think the misconception that respecting equals agreement. Advocacy and education is the key to improving this as you point out. Our role as counselor can provide an important resource in the school setting to be a catalyst for positive change.
ReplyDeleteHere is a video clip I found on youtube and use it to teach my bullying lesson. It has two parts. I allow students to watch the whole thing stopping it between part one and two for a question and answer segment. I love this video because it allows me to cover respecting differences as well.
DeleteI am not sure which level you work in but, I hope it assist you in some manner.
https://youtu.be/O93zgGinqpc
Utilizing a pre-post test is a great way to become aware of the factors that contribute to a specific need. I noticed that this generation prides themselves on being different, which is great. However, I do agree with Cindy in expressing that importance of respecting differences. Tolerance is key when teaching students that they can still maintain their own identity and still have valid viewpoints but be open to other people differences. Great post!
ReplyDeleteHere is a video clip I found on youtube and use it to teach my bullying lesson. It has two parts. I allow students to watch the whole thing stopping it between part one and two for a question and answer segment. I love this video because it allows me to cover respecting differences as well.
DeleteI am not sure which level you work in but, I hope it assist you in some manner.
https://youtu.be/O93zgGinqpc
Many of my students' parents buy them the latest name brand shoes, clothes, jewelry, and gadgets so they can fit in. Many times we may wonder why is it that parents can spend so much money on material things that don't really matter, but won't buy them necessities for school. Although it does not make sense, we must remind ourselves, our colleagues and other students to respect each other's differences and not judge someone based on what they look like or what they wear. Clothes, shoes, jewelry, and makeup mask many things that people are not willing to share because they don't want to be perceived negatively.
ReplyDeleteHere is a video clip I found on youtube and use it to teach my bullying lesson. It has two parts. I allow students to watch the whole thing stopping it between part one and two for a question and answer segment. I love this video because it allows me to cover respecting differences as well.
DeleteI am not sure which level you work in but, I hope it assist you in some manner.
https://youtu.be/O93zgGinqpc
I have found myself here lately explaining this to students a good bit this year. I have done a few lessons on Respecting Differences and explaining that not everyone wants to wear the latest fashion fade or name brand shoes. I try to teach them that everyone is different and everyone is unique. I have a certain student that has mild Autism and his classmates help me out. He has a buddy that makes sure he turns in his assignments and pulls out the right book. That class of students learned how to respect the fact that, that certain student does things a little differently and that sometimes he needs assistance.
ReplyDeleteI really believe it all starts at home. I teach my daughter to always show respect to others and that our differences is what makes us unique. I try to stress the importance of not putting your value/worth into material things because they are just that.... things. Trying to fit in is not always a good thing, , be the best version of you is what I teach my daughter. You don't have to agree with "the differences" to necessarily respect them but I do agree that most people probably equate them to be the same as mentioned in a previous comment. Reinforcing this concept in school would be such a great benefit but like you've mentioned it can't be done alone.
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